Admitting You Are Wrong

 I would rather have a humble spirit and receive grace, than be right and have God resisting me.


I have learned over the course of my life that there are people who like to be right.  They make it their goal in life to always prove an opposite opinion or behavior wrong.  And when they are wrong, they hate to admit the other person may actually be right.  But being wrong, and admitting it, is an act of humility and God actually prefers humility.

1 Peter 5:5 – 7

Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud,
But gives grace to the humble.” Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.
You know there are people in life who may have gone through more than what you have and while the circumstances may be similar, they are still your “elders” with regard to certain situations.  And you may very well have more experience than someone else with regard to certain situations, which makes you the “elder” with regard to those.  My point is to give an understanding the word “elder,” as used above, does not necessarily denote age.
I started out this entry with regard to people who are wrong not admitting they are wrong.  That is what is known as being prideful.  Not wanting to admit someone else may be right and always trying to prove your own case and why you are right and the other person is wrong, even when someone who has been in a similar situation and has more experience with it may be telling you are wrong, is indeed prideful.  I, myself, have been guilty of being prideful on more than one occasion in my life.  Yeah, big surprise there.
I, unfortunately, have a 126 I.Q.  That’s the consistent number that has shown up over the years whenever I take I.Q. tests.  That’s borderline genius.  My point in telling you this is most of the time, I am right when it comes to certain things…and I hate it.  I hate it because when I am right too often, I do become prideful, don’t realize it and the Lord smacks me down.  I prefer being wrong.
When I am wrong, it gives me a sense of calm and peace and I can get down on my knees and thank the Lord.  One of the things I pray for every day is a humble spirit.  I would rather have a humble spirit and receive grace, than be right and have God resisting me.